Category : Romance and Relationships
Blog 8
Sorry Dude, You're Not Tall Enough
Well, with all the worldly goings on right now, I doubt I can include an entry oday of any great importance...so I won't try. I think today, instead of terror plots and all-and-out country confusion, I'd prefer to concentrate on something totally trivial and unrelated. I want to talk about my type. As in; my type of guy. I used to think I had a specific type of guy that I'm attracted to (black, tall, thin and cute but nerdy guys). However, as I get older, I notice that I really don't have a specific type of guy that I'm only attracted to anymore...and that pleases me. At the moment though, I think the sexiest guy on the planet is definitely Djimon Hounsou! 😍 My goodness, that man has got it going on!!! Anyway, back to what I was saying. In the last year or so, I've had two pretty serious/significant relationships that are complete opposites (as types go). One was a younger-than-me Nigerian guy and the other was a significantly-older-than-me Mexican guy. Both, I found to be extremely attractive, in very different ways. Within the past year or so, I find myself looking and considering connections with types I'd never noticed/considered before. And I mean to tell you, the types I speak of run the gamut! Sure, I could dismiss this newfound admiration of all things different, as a passing fancy. Or maybe, an experiment of the unknown. But the funny and cool thing is, I think it's just a good old fashioned case of maturity. Truthfully, I don't want to reject a chance of happiness because he isn't this or that I guess I would primarily see myself 'being' with someone somewhat like me (black and 30 something) because I would be exposed to that type of guy more often. However, I think it's truly anybody's guess of the type of guy I could end up with. I like that thought. I like the thought of opening up myself to people I never saw myself opening up to before. I mean, isn't romance (and the search for it) a gamble anyway? Why not gamble on that person you could never see yourself with a few years ago? Why not see if there's something good in store for you that you didn't see coming? I think that's a very exciting prospect. Ending this, I have to say that, though I'm likely to 'fudge' on many of the physical attributes I want this man (I dream of) to have, I'm not likely to change my mind on height. I'd like a guy to be considerably taller than me (I'm 5'11" in heels). BUT just as I say that I'm positive that I'm not EVER budging on height, I fall hopelessly and immeasurable in love with a dwarf! Well, if that happens...so be it!
Posted : 2006-08-11 09:26:00 AM Created : 2006-08-11 10:35:00 AM Visible to : Public
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